DK Metcalf proposed to Normani with a stunning 4-carat diamond engagement ring designed by Jason Arasheben of Jason of Beverly Hills. Metcalf was heavily involved in the design process, wanting Normani to be completely surprised. He aimed for a timeless piece, selecting an oval-cut diamond with additional smaller diamonds, all set in 18-carat white gold. Unlike typical situations where brides are more involved, Metcalf took charge to ensure the design remained a surprise. The couple’s engagement was confirmed after Metcalf’s trade to the Pittsburgh Steelers in March 2023, and Normani’s joyous reaction to the ring was a memorable moment for Arasheben.
- DK Metcalf proposed to Normani with a stunning 4-carat diamond ring designed by Jason Arasheben, the jeweler behind Jason of Beverly Hills
- Arasheben shared with PEOPLE that Metcalf was actively involved in the ring’s design throughout the entire process
- The designer explained that Metcalf’s goal was to ensure Normani experienced complete surprise upon seeing her ring
DeKaylin “DK” Metcalf was “deeply engaged” in crafting Normani’s diamond engagement ring.
Jason Arasheben, a well-known jeweler and founder of Jason of Beverly Hills, revealed to PEOPLE that the 27-year-old NFL star had a very distinct vision for the 4-carat gemstone. Metcalf confirmed his relationship with Normani, 28, back in July 2023, and announced their engagement while speaking to reporters after being traded from the Seattle Seahawks to the Pittsburgh Steelers on March 13.
Although he has collaborated with Metcalf numerous times before, Arasheben noted that creating Normani’s engagement ring was a unique experience.
“He contacted me and said, ‘Jason, I have a very special request. This is going to be my most significant purchase ever,'” the jeweler recalls. “I asked him what it was about, and he said, ‘I want to propose. I’m ready for this. I want to design a ring that will be timeless, something that she will cherish not only now but also fifty years from now, and I aim to make a statement.'”
Metcalf had a clear preference for an oval-cut diamond and, during the three-week design phase with Arasheben, selected a 4-carat stone complemented by approximately 1 carat of additional diamonds around the ring, all set in 18-carat white gold.
“He was deliberate with every design element,” Arasheben mentions. “He wanted to be hands-on throughout the process. He was keen to understand how the ring was crafted, he contributed to discussions about the underbelly design, the basket’s structure, and every little detail. Despite its simple appearance, the ring is filled with intricate details, and he participated in every decision.”
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Arasheben adds that Metcalf demonstrated more thoughtfulness in designing the engagement ring than he has exhibited for any of his personal jewelry in the past.
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“He has never invested this amount of energy before,” he shares. “He mentioned that this is someone truly special to him, and he wanted to create something not just personal but also something very meaningful to her.”
Arasheben notes that the process was particularly distinct as, unlike many grooms, Metcalf preferred not to include Normani in any part of the planning.
“It’s common for grooms to ask their partners to help select the stone and design,” he clarifies. “Typically, the groom just funds the purchase and takes a back seat. But this was refreshingly different. He wanted to make all the decisions himself to keep it completely surprising for her.”
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Ultimately, the surprise was incredibly rewarding.
“For a jeweler, the ultimate pleasure comes from witnessing the recipient’s delight upon unveiling the ring,” Arasheben reveals, referring to Normani, who showcased her engagement ring during an episode of The Jennifer Hudson Show that aired on April 4. “Seeing her excitement and the beautiful photos capturing her happiness truly made my day and affirmed that I accomplished my goal.”
He adds, “I feel fortunate that my role allows me to be part of such significant and unforgettable moments in people’s lives. I am grateful to him for allowing me to have a role, however small, in this fairytale proposal.”